We as humans have always been faced with big questions. Things like "Why is the sky blue?" "Why were we put here on earth?" "Why do people fall in love?" and "Why does the world go round?" The question I want to know is, why do people feel the need to be in a relationship?
I have different theories to why people would feel the need to do so. Some people might have the need to be in a relationships at all times so they always have someone to kiss, because between you and me it happens to be quite fun but I don't see why you need a boyfriend or girlfriend to do so.
Here's another theory, maybe greedy people just want someone there to buy them things and take care of them. I'm focusing this one mainly on girls who get in relationships and expect their boyfriends to buy them everything and expect expensive, elaborate presents on every holiday. (even presidents day, labor day, etc.) and then there's those boys who expect girls to do all their cleaning and run all their errands.
I guess the only real logical explanation is that people are afraid of being alone so they'll rush into any relationship with someone they are attracted to. Which is dumb because it takes time to be sure if you want to be someone. Which is probably the main reason in which relationships end badly. People are scared of being a alone so they think the solution to their loneliness is a boyfriend or girlfriend. If you ask me that's bull sh*t. That's what best friends are for.
So there you have my conclusion, people feel the need to always be in a relationship because no one likes to be alone.
6 comments:
There a word for those greedy people. It's called (parsimony). That mean they don't like to spend money.
I like what you said about the relationship thing I agree. I think that people don't have to have a girlfriend to be cool. Cause people these days are like do you have a girlfriend and you are like no and then they are like your missing out and I'm like no. I have plenty of friends that are girls and just because we are not together doesn't mean I'm missing out. I mean you can take a girl out to eat and it's called a date or a outing. But just cause you took a girl out to eat or go to a movie doesn't mean your dating I mean like did you know that trying to maintain a relationship triggers feelings similar to physical pain. So yeah there's my part.
Don't people fall in love because they care to much and they just want someone to be with. You should have put it this way, why do we love when we really do not know what is? People need to be able to think long and hard it helps the brain. It's not how you put anything but how you say it.
I agrees with you Taylor, but at the same time people do fall in love and it really isn't something people have control over. It's just something that happens when you connect with someone else.
People want to feel apart of something mainly that's why a lot of kids turn to gangs.They don't feel like a functioning part of society so they feel left out.They want to feel like they belong to someone because sometimes family just isn't enough.
Taylor, I couldn't agree more with you! I feel like now days people just feel the need to have to be in a relationship, and personally I just don't understand why. Maybe to fit in, feel good about themselves, I don't know but I think it's kind of sad. I have no problem with relationships but when you are in and out of relationships faster than I can blink, then something's wrong. There is nothing wrong with being single and it gives you time to focus on what's really important. If only more people could see that.
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