Let me tell you the best- kept secret about dialing with your mom and dad. It's easy. The 10/90 role 10% is what you think about the situation and 90% is how you react to the problem and how you dill with it. The secret is to just Listen to what they have to say to you.
Do: If they ask you to take out the dog just do it. Things will come way more easy'er forill you in life dilling with your mom or dad.
Don't: If your mom or dad ask you to cling your room don't argue with tham it make tham think that they are not strict enough with you. Than they star to make more rules and then they will star to give you a earlier bed time.
Do: If your mom or dad are fighting and neither one is take the time to pay a techun to you and all they want to do is fight just let them and go an cling the front yard or or take the dog for a wok. Doing just that it will make them think that you do not deserve to woach them fight then they will let you go out to the moves or your friends just to get out of the hows.
Don't: If mom and dad are fighting don't get in their bis nest or star to chows sighed because in the end they are still both your pair
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I agree with you Juan I didn't like to obey my parents and like you said I got more rules, less freedom, and I got all my electronics taken away. When I started to do better the rules became less inforced, less strict, and I found myself just staring at the walls and ceiling of my house and soon after the walls of Slate Canyon Detention Center. I knew it would happen but I didn't care I regret it now.
Juan, I really liked your blog :) I think you did really well! One of the donts I liked was not to pick sides with your parents because In the end they will both be your parents. There was a time when I chose my moms side over something dumb and it really affected I and my dads realshionship and I wish I never picked sides and just stayed out of it. GREAT JOB!!!!!!!!!!! You did awesome I love you :) <3
I really like this post because I know exactly what you mean. My parents used to fight all the time and I learned the hard way to just stay out of their business. That was my favorite part of your list because I have experience with it. One thing that you could add to your list is always respect your parents no matter what!
Good job Juan. You did good on this. I liked it. (:
Juan I agree with you. All of that stuff does work but your parents have a huge part of it to. Yes if you do listen to what they say then they will be less strict with you. But if you are in my situation with a step parent who does not like you then it is kind of hard even if you do everything they tell you to do.
This is good advice Juan.parents are defiantly hard to deal with sometimes, but you just gotta respect them and do it. If we all did this there is a big chance we would still be home right now. But you have a good mindset Juan, I respect that.
I rilly thake everyone for comment on my blog and I also think that know mater watt hapint with you and your parents they with always be their for you know mater watt situation FAMILY will always be their to the end.
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