Top three questions you should not ask a lady.
I'm not a lady. But I have a mom,and she is a lady. I know a lot of other ladies. If you haven't noticed ladies are very particular,they take offense to things that men don't. A female has no issue letting you know that you've offended her.
#1 How old are you?
This is information that is top secret. For some reason when a lady is asked their age they automatically assume that you are asking because they look old. And that's the last thing a women wants to be is old.
#2 How much do you weigh?
This is more information that a women most likely won't share. And you should avoid asking this. They are quick to assume that you think they weigh too much. Can you see the similarities between the reasons not to ask both numbers one and two?
#3 you're hot!
This isn't a question,it's a statement. The point you're shooting for is mostly respectful. But it's important to word it respectfully. Beautiful or pretty are good words to use,it makes Ladies feel like there a person and not an object.
So the point is don't question a lady. If she wants to share some info with you she will. And if you are going to ask questions,you should think about it. If your question might offend a girl you shouldn't ask. And if you follow this you won't get smacked up by a girl(most likely).
6 comments:
So usually if you ask a girl their age now days since we are in high school they tipacally don't really care if you do that's just something I've noticed.
Good job bro, respecting ladies is a good thing to know, you pretty much explained it so people who don't understand do.
Wow way to steal my topic. Just kidding. (:
You should only not ask older lady's their age. Once they'er past like 27 that's when they'll probably start getting offened.
I loved your blog, I'm a girl and honestly I dont like it when people ask me for my age, or how much I weigh. I feel like that is personal and if you want to now that information then I should be the one telling you, don't ask me. And I especially hate it when random guys tell you "you're hot" maybe if they talked me me and I knew them they could say something like that. But use a different word like beautiful or gorgeous. Loved your blog Dominic.
Wow, Damien, you're such a gentleman. A lot of girls do get offended when these questions are asked. I'd get irritated with some questions, but I think guys need to have more respect for women. I'm glad you get the point.
I love the fact that you said lady instead of girl. This shows that you have respect and it makes you more respected. I like your "you're hot" statement the best. When a guy tells me that, it makes me feel disrespected and like more of an object than a person. When I'm told I'm beautiful however, it makes me feel more respected. Good job.
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