Stop Asking - Top 3 questions you should never ask a girl that your trying to date.
At one point in your life you will or have found yourself attracted to a female. So when you do find that one good girl that you want to date don't dare ask these three questions.
#1 How much do you weigh?
The reason why you never ever want to ask a girl how much she ways is because first of all it's rude, second of all it makes the conversation or situation your in extremely awkward for her, and then last but not least it shouldn't matter how much she weighs if YOU find her attractive. So in general just don't ask question that can lead to judgement
#2 How many boyfriends have you had?
This question here you absolutely don't want to ask there is 3 reasons why. One is because she could feel like your trying to imply something negative about her. Two is it can lead to conversations about her ex or ex's which can bring up bad memories and crappy emotions for her and that isn't cool. Last it can effect the way you think about her it can lead you to seeing her differently like seeing her less than what she is and no girl deserves that because every girl out there is unique and beautiful in there own ways and deserve to be treated right.
#3 can I go through your phone?
This question here is very dangerous but this question can make her feel like you don't have trust in her and that isn't right there should always be great amounts of trust within a relationship and if there isn't a lot of trust don't ask to go through her personal things just talk about your feelings and figure out how you can both creat more trust with one another.
So when you find the girl of your dreams just remember to avoid theses three questions, instead ask her questions showing that you care for her like, hey how was you day?or how was your weekend? And be yourself to don't try to act like somebody your a lot of girls find it unattractive.
Good Luck !
5 comments:
I like the second one you have because you should like the person as what they are and not who she dated in the past. I remember long time ago I asked this and I got shut down. I think that a good one to not ask is what do you feel about past deaths because it can be a major turn off.
Matt C
I think the best question is "How much do you weigh?" I like this because you must have something wrong with you if you have the courage to ask a girl this question. Me personally I would be scared to even think about asking a girl this question. Anyone else who reads this comment "NEVER, EVER," ask this question.
Yay. Finally a smart one!! I hated when my ex would do this to me. It made me feel like he didn't trust me, and it hurt. If I want to tell a guy theses things then we would have to be pretty damn close. My husband and I are very close so we do share these things with each other, so it's no longer awkward.
This is real stuff, and I'm glad that you know what not to ask a girl Julio! Hopefully you can make others see that also. I really like the one about asking her if you can go through her phone. I think if you really have to ask a girl this, it just shows that you aren't ready for a relationship. It shows that you are insecure, that you don't have trust for her and most of all, that if you feel like you need to see if she's fooling around, you must be the one fooling around, 'cause why else would you be tripping over that for? If there is no trust, it's not going to work. Great insight!
I see that you put a lot of thought in your paper . I see that you you probably know from experience or heard about. I hope that these types of thoughts don't go through my mind while I'm talking to a girl. So thanks for the information and hope that you follow your own words.
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