When I was little, my dad was never in my life because he did not care about when I was going to be born. So then, my mom said he's not going to be in your life at all then.
8 comments:
Kimberly
said...
I kind of relate to this because my dad was hardly ever in my life. He never wanted us to ever be with him after he got his new wife so he always tries to come back to me but I never let him. I feel like you learned a lesson by this cause you don't really need people in your life if they don't really want to be in yours
I can relate to this because that's sort of how it's been for me. I don't know if you ever talk to your dad or see him but maybe he has changed and cares now? And if he doesn't then that doesn't matter because you have gotten this far in life without him. Now that you're changing I think you can get farther in life. :) He's missing out and that's too bad for him.
This memoir means a lot to me because I can relate to it very well. My dad was never really there growing up. So I basically grew up with no father figure, other than my step father.
You know for 17 years I was lied to about who my real dad was. The guy I thought was my dad, he had passed away when I was just two years old same dad as my sister. Then when I was 17 I found out he wasn't that it was some guy no one even knew, my sister even knew before I did! It hurt that my mom had hidden it from me never bothered to tell me, still planning on not telling me. I had actually found it out from my little sister. It was such a struggle with my mom after that she refused to let him back in my life and I resented her for that so I understand to a point how hard it is to be with out a parent for sometime.
I had that same thing growin up you no. I never new my dad, it is what it is . It just taught me when I have a family I'm not goin to make the same mistake.
I can relate to your blog.when I was born my dad left me because he didn't thing I was his.i feel like it made me more determined to get what I want. Now I'm learning how to be a man from the man that care about me,even know I'm not theirs,I'm ok with it.
8 comments:
I kind of relate to this because my dad was hardly ever in my life. He never wanted us to ever be with him after he got his new wife so he always tries to come back to me but I never let him. I feel like you learned a lesson by this cause you don't really need people in your life if they don't really want to be in yours
I can relate to this because that's sort of how it's been for me. I don't know if you ever talk to your dad or see him but maybe he has changed and cares now? And if he doesn't then that doesn't matter because you have gotten this far in life without him. Now that you're changing I think you can get farther in life. :) He's missing out and that's too bad for him.
I can relate to this memoir. Because I also grew up with no dad in my life, I had to learn how to be a man myself. So I know how you feel.
I understand where your mom was coming from. But do you wish he would have been in your life a little? Do you miss him now, or are you glad he's gone?
This memoir means a lot to me because I can relate to it very well. My dad was never really there growing up. So I basically grew up with no father figure, other than my step father.
You know for 17 years I was lied to about who my real dad was. The guy I thought was my dad, he had passed away when I was just two years old same dad as my sister. Then when I was 17 I found out he wasn't that it was some guy no one even knew, my sister even knew before I did! It hurt that my mom had hidden it from me never bothered to tell me, still planning on not telling me. I had actually found it out from my little sister. It was such a struggle with my mom after that she refused to let him back in my life and I resented her for that so I understand to a point how hard it is to be with out a parent for sometime.
I had that same thing growin up you no. I never new my dad, it is what it is . It just taught me when I have a family I'm not goin to make the same mistake.
I can relate to your blog.when I was born my dad left me because he didn't thing I was his.i feel like it made me more determined to get what I want. Now I'm learning how to be a man from the man that care about me,even know I'm not theirs,I'm ok with it.
Post a Comment